I saw a programme on Channel 4 the other evening called The Events: How Racist are You? which was, essentially, a repeat of Jane Elliot’s ‘blue-eyed/brown-eyed’ anti-racism exercise with a group of English people. I don’t think it quite worked, because Britain has never had a system of institutionalised segregation in the same way as the southern United States did in the 1960s with the Jim Crow laws. However, it was plainly obvious that the white people involved didn’t actually ‘get’ racism, and specifically that racism has more to do with power structures and privilege than simply prejudice based on skin tone. There is a world of difference between a member of a majority culture treating a minority differently and vice versa. Anyway, the idea of ‘political correctness’ naturally came up, as it tends to do in such discussions, with various people (as I recall) bemoaning their lack of a right to purchase goods with golliwog imagery.
Cut forward to today, and checking the Guardian website whilst procrastinating on an essay, I found an article about the Foreign Minister of the French government’s reaction to the Conservative Party’s new policy about Europe. He described them as having a “bizarre form of autism”. Which is fairly politically incorrect to use as an insult but no one really cares that much, apparently.
As someone who was diagnosed with Asperger’s Syndrome over a decade ago, the continuous use of the word ‘autistic’ as a derogatory term for anyone mildly anti-social or weird bothers me somewhat as it is, but I’ve been working on a sense of humour for something like four years now and I think I’ve finally just about cracked it. It’s something I laugh about it constantly, because I have to be able to poke fun at it else it just becomes too much to deal with. I inwardly mutter “Oh whoopsy-daisy wasn’t that a silly autistic thing to do” when I can’t grasp a friend’s use of sarcasm or similar. Friends who know joke about it quite a bit, just like I poke fun at their quirks and kinks. However… it significantly irritates me when people I don’t know very well make a mean-spirited autism (or disability, race, gender, blonde, so on and so forth) jibe, but generally I accept it, move on, unless it’s particularly off-colour. Comedians using shock tactics – fine, not particularly what makes me laugh but there is a value to it. So I have a pretty high tolerance level; higher than I used to at least. The thing which I really cannot stand and really gets me irate is when statesmen and other figures of authority make such metaphors about policy or politicians they don’t agree with. It confuses me that there hasn’t been more uproar about this particular incident, actually; if he’d referred to the Tories as ‘retarded’ there’d be much more discussion about it. Oh wait, I forgot, the media pretty much demonise autism as it is (see: continuing MMR uproar).
I understand why ‘autistic’ might be an appropriate epithet for Cameron’s new Europe policy, I honestly do. It’s quite clear that M. Lellouche intended it as a dig against the stubborn refusal of the Conservatives to engage fully with Europe, meaning it in a sense of ‘lacking social skills’. When I first read the article I thought ‘hey France, stop giving autistics a bad name by lumping them with that lot’, and there’s an element of seriousness to that. I hate the fact that the word conjures up images of resolutely silent, stroppy monsters, a plague feeding on otherwise happy families; that the lion’s share of press surrounding autism is framed in such sensationalist, B-movie terms. Even the phrase ‘Ooh s/he’s such an autistic savant’ has a patronising ring to it. I don’t even really want to reclaim the word and use it for positive reasons, I just wish it was kept as a detached, medical term. Linguistically speaking, we need words that aren’t loaded, but they’re always stolen away and thrown like bombs.
Personally speaking, it did take me years to come to terms with having Asperger’s and I still wake up frequently thinking ‘god, why me, I’m such a burden on everyone I know’; I have days where I really don’t want to socialise and the deep, lurking instinct to hide under my desk rises anew. A little bit of support from society as a whole, as well as wider understanding, would go pretty far to make getting up in the morning on those days so much easier, but when my brain isn’t working ‘right’ people do tend to think I’m being deliberately callous and drama occurs and so on and so forth. Incidents such as this, although they seem little, make the stigmatisation of autism and related conditions even more insidious and make it even more difficult to see why exactly I am bothering since it’s clearly such an AWFUL thing to have.
Although these are rambles on two different matters, the uniting theme is this idea of ‘political correctness’. Over the last few years I’ve heard people rant against ‘political correctness’ on an increasing level until it becomes a deafening wall of sound drowning out any arguments for things such as equality and hate crime laws, in much the same way that the same people argue that some mythical entity known only as the ‘PC bridage’ jump down your throat if you try having a serious discussion about immigration. This could be me being young and fairly naive, here, since after all I grew up in multicultural Britain, in the aftermath of the Macpherson Report to be precise. But when anyone rails on about protecting their right to be as un-PC as they like I just think they’re vociferously defending their right to be a douchebag to people of a lower social standing than them. Because un-PC jokes are broadly aimed at people below you on the food-chain. I’ve heard plenty of white people complain that they aren’t allowed to use the N word to refer to black people but black people use it amongst themselves all the time; that’s because it’s a word, like faggot or queer, which changes connotations depending on context, especially the person using it.
Essentially, what I’m trying to say is that, bloody hell I want the phrase ‘political correctness’ to go away and die and instead of people accusing their critics of being PC to think about why exactly it might not be a very good idea to use that word, or express that idea; to think about their role in society and that (although they might not feel like it) they hold more power than others; and to lastly just maybe smile, accept that (although they might not understand why) their words have caused harm, and try to avoid being hurtful in the name of free speech. After all, just because you can say something doesn’t mean that you necessarily should.